Sunday, October 19, 2008

they say... "Where do you DRAW the LINE"



So tonight my store had 2 year anniversary party, and i had a good time and enjoyed the people there... BUT!!!...

My ex was there and she got bent outta shape about a situation in the club and decided she wanted to confront me about it, thats coo except i dont do the arguing in the club thing and refuse to let some1 raise their voice at me... well she sure as hell felt it was OK as i continually asked her to lower her tone. Above all it was EXTREMELY uncalled for to pull this stunt at this event seeing as tho' i have other affiliates and people from companies i work with there, quite frankly that shit doesnt look good at all.

I blame myself because i should have expected this BUT i figured i wouldnt ever have to as far as to say, "dont get loud with me in public," cuz i sure as hell dont play that shit!

the situation died down but it was embarrassing as fuck!... BUT please believe i will not be happening again...

So this leaves me wondering... "at what point do some people draw the damn line"... do they keep goin until the other person losses their cool or what?

well i jus wanted to vent!



*this is my 98th post... i got somethin special fa yall when i get to my 100th post*

13 comments:

Eb the Celeb said...

I have never been one of them so I dont understand... I have always been the type that good give you a look from across the room that would hurt so bad you were scared to go home because you knew when we got there that you were going to get it...

this makes no sense with her being an ex as to why she would want to make a scene... immaturity of course but obviously she still has feelings for you or it wouldn't have even been an option

What you do to that girl G...lol?

CHA CHA said...

The drama certainly was not neccessary. Although you didnt respond, she should be the one embarrassed because she acted as ass in public. If you kept your cool, you definitely came out looking like the bigger person. People get even more upset when you dont argue back..cus they cant argue with themselves. I hope you cut all ties with her, her appropriateness is out the door, you want a lady right....lol

Amber Steez said...

girls are so . . STUPID. she clearly still has feelings for you and the "making i scene" is to get some attention from you that she undeniably needs

Jazzy said...

Wow. If she is your ex, why did she feel the need to just go off on you like that?

Some people really need to just learn how to keep it moving.

Obviously homegirl is an ex for a reason...next time leave her to argue by her lonely.

Muze said...

looking forward to the big 100. smiles.

and wow. you must have maddeher really really mad.

but how can she be mad if you guys are not together?

me no gets it.


hope all is well hun.

dejanae said...

what the hell?
so uncalled for

Miss Snarky Pants said...

Women are women and the truth of the matter is we're gonna show our @sses but it was definitely inappropriate for her to do it then.

Wassup G-Sweet?!?!?! [What it do bruh???]

Love that profile pic by the way!! :-)

G-Sweet said...

explanation... ok i see alotta people askin the same thing so lemme address why she felt it was coo'... now me and my ex decided to see if we could dome to a common ground for a period of time before we tryed to see what was up with a relationship again, so we decided to do the just dating thing for a short period...

then a female acquaintance was at the party and my ex felt disrespected...


just wanted to shed a lil light on that....

EB... well please dont become one of them Eb... and i cant tell you what i did to her, then id have u actin up too...lol
POCA... i felt that way because of how it went it wasnt just a normal night at the club or i wouldnt give 2 damns, but i gotta handle business with those people at some point... and to be honest me and her are friends aside from her being my ex so i doubt i'll cut ties...

JAYNE... lol yes they can be at times, and why do women figure that?... that just makes a guy not wanna deal with u

O-DIVA... a big part of what u said is true... i shoulda just left the situation but i knew that wouldna been the end of it.

MUZE... yea i got somethin special for the 100... at least it is to me... imma put myself out there, so tune in i gotta lotta realness coming... and see the above why she felt it was coo'

DEJA... in any case id never go off in public, but i guess its true u ant expect eveybody to be like u

MS. B... lmao @ "show our asses"... but why cuz a real man isnt gonna give you the satisfaction, i dunno maybe some will... it just pisses me off!

MsFreshBananaPuddin said...

lololololol.ever since I got literally picked up and carried out of toons for getting in a fight with my ex i have no room to talk in this situation.

But i feel you.there is a time and a place.however,guys and females also see things differently though.dudes be more concerned about being embarrassed, while women want to get their point across because they are already embarrassed for feeling a certain way...in my opinion.

kit von b. said...

yea, like, that shit is wack. why bring ur drama to the club?

ugh.

-KB

Melody.Darlene said...

wtf?? she was wrong for that! that was supposed be ur day to celebrate your success. she pulled a hater move FOR REEEEEALS! a GROWN woman woulda talked to u about any issues at a more appropriate time.

people always tryna bring other ppl down. smh!

CapCity said...

Congrats on being an uncle!
keep steppin' away from bad company... u too cute for chicken heads anyway;-) - as melody said: u need Grown & Sexy!

Smitty said...

Whelp...You know how it goes broski...woman are EXTRA emotional. Especially the one your dealing with.